Will Smith breaks silence on Chris Rock feud: “We’ll be able to be friends again”

Smith wants to be friends with Rock despite ‘slapgate’

Will Smith and Chris Rock used to be friends.

Will Smith and Chris Rock used to be friends.LAPRESSE

 

In 2022, during the Oscars ceremony, Chris Rock made comments about Jada Pinkett Smith that offended Will Smith, who then walked onstage and slapped him. Smith apologized several times for his actions and stated in a YouTube video, “if you hang on, I promise we’ll be able to be friends again.”

Chris Rock eventually addressed the situation in his Netflix comedy special, “Selective Outrage,” saying, “I have rooted for Will Smith my whole life. And now, I watch ‘Emancipation’ just to see him get whooped.”

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Dr. Frederick Smith, a psychologist with 15 years of experience in the mental health field, explained that friendships can end for a variety of reasons. Factors such as moving cities and opposing values can cause strains in relationships. In the case of Smith and Rock, both parties felt disrespected by the other on the night of the slap.

Dr. Smith emphasized the importance of understanding the root of anger and acknowledging one’s role in the rift, stating, “A lot of times, we won’t face the major stressor and we’ll take it out on the person that deserves it the least. That can be a spouse, significant other, family member, or even a friend.”

Friendships can be repaired

However, friendships can still be repaired if both parties are willing to work towards it. Dr. Smith recommends discussing the problem or seeking help from a licensed professional to reestablish the friendship. Learning to apologize and forgive properly is also crucial for repairing and maintaining friendships.

As Dr. Smith explained: “Sincerely telling someone ‘I’m sorry’ initiates the process of forgiveness, meaning the other person has the opportunity to let go of hurt feelings.”

At the same time, not all friendships are meant to last forever, and it’s okay to grieve the loss of a relationship. Dr. Smith stated: “Sometimes friendships aren’t meant to last forever and that’s okay.” It’s important to recognize when a friendship has run its course and not force a seasonal relationship into a lifetime commitment.

In conclusion, friendships can end for various reasons, but repairing them is possible with effort, understanding, and forgiveness. However, not all friendships are meant to last forever, and it’s important to accept this fact and move on when necessary. As Will Smith said in his apology video: “If you hang on, I promise we’ll be able to be friends again.”